Every adult has an inner child. If he has been injured, this injury will follow. He was born with cleft lip and palate, which also closed his inner world. It was not until he met his wife Liss that he slowly faced the future of the sun.
"I know how difficult this mental defense is to break through. It is because you are leading me forward, so I think we can keep working harder..." Dai Jiuxiong, a 40-year-old hair stylist, congenital cleft lip and palate, was a patient with Dr. Luo Huifu. The reason should continue to treat and rebuild. However, after the family changes and school bullying and cold treatment of the teacher, he not only interrupted his schedule, but also closed his inner world until he met his wife Liss, treating his cold response with Yang Guang, guiding him to regain his life and welcome the future of Yang Guang.
Speaking of her husband Jiuxiong, Liss admitted that her first impression of him was coldness, and she did not find that he was a cleft lip and palate patient. She clearly felt that Jiuxiong deliberately kept a specific distance from others. When others looked at him, she would give others a feeling of "Why do you want to see me?"
Liss even laughed that because Jiuxiong had some tattoos, the first thought at that time was that he might have sex with someone and then got beaten and injured, and needed to get hurt from time to time. "I really thought it was like that. I really didn't dare to ask him. After being with him, I realized that he was a lip. Cleft palate, I still want to say who beats someone so badly, and even if you hit someone here, you still need surgery. The result is not."
The husband of cleft lip and palate, the kind-hearted heart, Liss, the process of in-depth conversation with Kuoxiong, has gradually revealed the mysterious side of the other party and found that the other party is actually different from his own thoughts. Liss shared that when she first went to Kuoxiong's house, she saw photos that he had not yet been repaired or rebuilt. Jiuxiong was shocked and even quickly put away the photos. Only then did she realize that it was the scar in Kuoxiong's heart that could even be said to be the "shadow area".
Jiuxiong escaped coldly, Liss did not give up, and used sincerity to sort out the scars in her husband's heart. "Many things have been asked slowly by me over the past few years, and I poured it up, and I realized that he encountered this kind of thing and had this surgery when he was a child, and then what his family did to him, what the school teacher did to him, or how his classmates treated him coldly."
Just like the angel sent by God to save Jiuxiong, Liss's original family gave her good love and education, so when she saw Jiuxiong like this, "I would think that sometimes God is a little unfair, why is it so much different, but in fact, he is very kind in his heart, and he should not have such a treatment."
Teacher: You don't know, can you not play with other classmates?The harm of childhood made Jiuxiong appear! I remember that when I was a child, I took the initiative to play with my classmates, but all the people were called by the instructor. Kuoxiong spat deeply and then sucked in and said, "Teacher, he took a very long vine bar, then poked my body and said to me, "Don't you know you can't play with other classmates? Do you don't know?" I was poked and returned about 10 times..."
When I got home, my parents didn't care about his condition at school, and then faced the news of their divorce. "Everything comes very quickly. I can't digest these emotions. I can't care whether I am a child with cleft lip and palate. Instead, I think it seems that I am the only one left in the world. I am working hard to do a lot of things. Regarding the mood of cleft lip and palate, in fact, I started to slowly compare it with my wife. I could express my emotions and my thoughts."
For Jiuxiong, Liss is actually the invincible villain in his heart: "What I mean by villain is that the person who loves you the most in everyone's heart will always be that big villain, because only in this way can you move forward! She always thought that I could become better, and I think this is the biggest key to me on the road of life."
The truth of love lies in finding suitable people, accompanying each other, and then supporting each other to achieve a better self.