Is love to open a express car actually self-repression? Driver psychology, look at hidden personality from 11 ways to drive

From years of experience of riding a car and driving myself, I discovered a very interesting phenomenon, that is, no matter what brand of car it is, it is like an X-ray machine, which will clearly show the true face of the person sitting in a driving seat and holding a directional plate. However, because of the nature of the person I originally knew, it is too different from the person I originally knew, so I often need to know this friend again. I believe many people have had similar wonderful experiences. For example, when taking a colleague's car, they suddenly realized that they usually look at their slow and rational work, and even procrastinate, but when they start the car, they will be furious, which makes people sweat. Some people are just the opposite, they usually go forward bravely and start the car and be stable. What small actions will occur when driving? What is related to personality? Next time I have the opportunity to take a friend's car, I might as well be a careful observer and keep his various words and deeds in my brain. I believe I will further understand the other party's personality traits.

The aggressive "Roy Nu"

In many mobile videos and TV news, you often see irritable drivers. They are moved to the point where they beat the car and smash the car and ejaculate because they are reminded by others on a loudspeaker or are unhappy with others over the car. Some people call this group of people "Royal Clans", and unpleasant driving will turn into aggressive driving behavior. Why is it particularly easy to cause the "Lu Nu Clan" when starting a car? Some "roadnu tribes" regard cars as their own private territory. Once they feel that their private areas have been violated, they will immediately take fierce prevention measures. Some "road nirs" also interpret the behaviors of others' "supercar" and "speaker" into the meaning of being provocative and obsessive, so they immediately get off the car without discrimination and report the other party.

There are also some "road rage" because of the accumulated dissatisfaction in daily life, so that they are not ashamed of anything, and any trivial matter will make them go wild. In addition, the temperature is also closely related to the mood. Research has found that the rate of violent crime also has an increasing trend in the hot summer, especially when it is wet and difficult to resist, which can easily lead to car conflicts. Also, if the driving is just about to be in the manic period of "dual affection and related disorders" (irritability), it is easy to get out of control and become an unreasonable "road rage".

Persons who speak on the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the board are also common. No matter what job he originally worked in, he immediately became a political speaker with a loud voice as soon as he got on the car. Especially when he encountered a chaotic moment of traffic jam, he even spoke in a slight manner and criticized the national affairs all the way. In his eyes, government officials are all fools, scholars and experts are all fools, and no one is more wise than him. If this type of people have more extreme thoughts, then they are prone to setbacks in real life. The consequences of the evil cycle often make them look unsightly and do not satisfactory in anything they do. They always feel that they are not satisfied with their mistakes, and people all over the world are sorry for him.

People with gender discrimination

In their eyes, women are most not as good as men. Therefore, whenever they see a slower driving speed and a less lusty car into the warehouse, they will immediately emphasize in a very light tone: "This must be a woman's car." If the fact is proved that the driver is a woman, he will laugh proudly: "You women won't drive at all, and you have to come out to fight with men." For people with gender discrimination, women should be best to stay at home obediently, so they are the best candidates.

People who are in a hurry and are in a hurry

People who like to be in a hurry are often more anxious and have an unstable personality. Therefore, when starting a car, they will come to an emergency and drive without warning, making the whole car more and more tight as they sit. People who are tempted and rushing are similar to those who are in a hurry to drive. Most of them are impatient and impatient. They will take extraordinary measures to seek speed. For example, when driving, they will copy shortcuts or change lanes continuously, but in the end they will be hasty and unable to reach it. At this time, his fire will rush directly into his brain, and if he does not move, he will get angry with others.

People who pursue speed

People who like to pursue speed to relieve pressure usually have self-depression and will deliberately hide their nature and preferences. Therefore, when he encounters something he doesn't like, he often encourages himself to pretend to like it; or he is obviously very annoyed by someone, but still smiles on the surface; or he doesn't know how to refuse things he doesn't want to do in his heart. When he can't stand the pressure of external human feelings, he often uses adventure behaviors such as running away, missing, and driving to balance the internal and external mismatch and different emotional feelings.

Ultimate jogging

People who start cars as slow as Ultimate jogging may be slower when they are old, or they may be slow doctors who are more seldom swallowing. They are more careful and cautious regardless of whether they are human or in any matter. They value safety very much. They should not have any accidents if they are slower.

People who speak by themselves

may often drive on the road alone, lacking a companion to talk and chat. Over time, they develop a habit of speaking to themselves. And once they become natural, even if someone sits beside him, he will murmur himself as if no one is there. People who talk to themselves usually don’t have too many friends. When they have nothing to do, they like to do daydreaming, so that their thoughts can wander around without destination. Therefore, music is as important as sunlight, air and water. They not only turn the music off immediately as soon as they get on the car, but also listen to sing, revealing a very intoxicated look.. As for the motors that listen to music, some people are trying to refresh themselves so as not to fall asleep on the long journey; some people are taking advantage of the opportunity to sing, hoping to have the opportunity to perform one day. Usually, they also have a certain degree of self-respect and are easily immersed in their own world.

People who never develop new routes

People who never develop new routes only dare to open the routes they have walked. Not only is they more cautious and conservative in nature, but they are also more stingy. As long as they have never been to a place, they will just walk. Even if someone volunteers to take the lead, he will find a way to reject the other party's kindness. In real life, people who never develop new routes dare not try new things, and even make decisions are unreliable. It is best that the world will remain calm and unchanged, so that they will feel safe.

People who draw routes

Every time before leaving the door, the person who draws routes will first draw the car routes according to the distance and direction of the location, and then follow the map, without thinking about what to do, and in vain time running around the round trip. Generally speaking, people who like to draw routes before travel have the concept of "time is money", and at the same time they will set short-term, medium-range and long-range goals for their careers, have good organizational ability, and are thoughtful in thinking.

People who do not abide by the rules

People who do not follow the rules usually do not take traffic rules in their eyes, regardless of whether they park or red lights, yellow lights, speeding, or supercars, they take it for granted. In addition to not following the rules when starting a car, they may also be able to make mistakes in the law or leave behind when doing other things. For example, when working in investment, they are short-term operations and are not very patient to do things that will bring you hard work.

Law-abiding people

Law-abiding people act in a completely opposite way to those who do not abide by rules. They not only abide by all traffic rules, but also do things in a real way, and they will never tilt their brains or walk behind. Although they have a sense of security and guaranteed relationship with law-abiding people, since their words and deeds are not at all correct, they are relatively less likely to create a life interest, neither sweet words nor know Romantic, and need to create romantic emotions by themselves.

Before I could not start the car, I was curious: Why is there such a big difference between a person "before driving" and "after opening"? Which two unseen hands are secretly doing plastic surgery for their individuality? I realized that when I started driving, I often felt "unconscious" when I started driving. All actions were counter-reactions, and it was difficult to reveal my unknown nature.

In addition, when people are in harmony, they need to be polite and superficial, so as not to offend others; however, people are in harmony with things, so they do not feel that the machine is dead. As a result, various small movements and tails were exposed. By driving to print out a person's personality, there are actually too many messages that can be observed. Not only can you understand from "value viewing" to "individual characteristics", but you can also enter the other party's potential and see hidden automatic reactions. It is said that it is the richest observation journey, and sometimes it can even explain the truth that makes you puzzled.

Book Introduction

Book Name: Insight into people's hearts from habits: Learn to understand people, solve all the troubles of international relations

Author: Lin Cuifen

Publishing House: Times Publishing Date: 2020/04/14

Author Introduction/ Lin Cuifen

has certificates from professional counselor psychologists, and has been promoting psychology for many years. In addition to the "Insight into the Heart" series of books, it has also tailored the courses of "Employee Psychological Advisors and Guidance" and "Employee Mental Health Manager" to help the enterprise community boost employees' self-efficacy. Why can she cross the business world and the psychological consulting business world? In fact, she has been a cultural and service consultant for nearly ten years. She said that this is an era of psychology, where people's contact is getting shorter and shorter. If you lack the reading skills to distinguish others' wishes, not only will people usually face embarrassing setbacks, but it will also lead to career development failures. In this regard, she is committed to integrating the essence of various psychological business schools, utilizing it in life, people and work, and easily mastering the advantages of people.

Current: Director of the Media Commission of the All-China Association of the Advisory Psychologists, lecturer of the "China Personnel Executive Association", lecturer of the "Songde Psychological Clinic", lecturer of the Advisory Psychological Clinic, lecturer of the "Consolidated Psychological Clinic", lecturer of the "Consolidated Psychological Clinic", and lecturer of Dongwu University

Books: Psychological strength: 15 psychological exercises, to exorcise those positions and people's control, fear, suspension, crisis and anxiety

Lin Cuifen's Advisory Psychologist's Life EQ Garden www.fannyeq.com.tw