When is it suitable for us to get married? How many features do you have with "marriage quality"?

"When is it suitable for us to get married?" Maybe you, who have been with your partner for a long time, have you ever thought about this problem in your heart countless times. Is it twenty-eight years old? Thirty years old? Or are there six or seven zeros in the number in the account?

Perhaps, none of these are the key points, the key points are whether the two people have sufficient maturity and can face the ups and downs of the second half of their lives together. You can start from the following five points to confirm whether the other party or you already have the marriage quality.

1. Independent

A large part of the relationship depends on whether the two people are independent or symbiotic. If one of the people's daily life, happiness, security, and economic sources must completely rely on the other person, then this relationship is based on seeking and discussing. Independent people can take good care of themselves, find happiness in their own places, or respect the other party having their own space.

Just as Form said in "The Art of Love": "The immature love is that I love you because I need you; and the mature love is that I need you because I love you."

2. The best time for Shen Shun

to observe a person is in conflicts and pressure. People with poor emotional management skills may have excessive emotional reactions when encountering unsatisfactory things, may choose to escape, and may also cause actions to hurt others or themselves. It is normal to have emotions, and the focus is on how to deal with these emotions in the future. People with high calmness have more rational thinking and look at what is happening to them. You can also reflect on the growth of growth in setbacks and make yourself better.

3. The basis of love

is the emotional connection between two people. If there is no emotional connection, even if you are in the same house, you can only be called a roommate at best. One of the ways to create emotional connections is to post them in a physical way, such as reminding the other party to remember what they bring tomorrow, occasionally running errands for the other party, listening carefully when the other party has a bad mood, and being able to praise the other party’s beauty at the right time. Studies have shown that physical propriety and marriage satisfaction are very related.

4. The best partner of supportiveness is the person who can support you as yourself. He can give encouragement, respect your decisions, help you when you need it, and be sincerely proud of your dreams. A consuming relationship is that you cannot be better than me; a nurturing relationship is that we will become better together.

5. Healthy Self-esteem

We all know that equal relationships go longer, and sometimes the reason why relationships are unbalanced is not that one party is too controlling, but that one party has too low self-esteem. Self-esteem is divided into two elements in the definition of psychology: self-ability and self-love. A person who hates himself and thinks he has no value may overdo his ideas from his partner, and may easily become lenient in life decisions, or may easily give up after encountering difficulties.

The above characteristics are not like dichotomies such as and whether or not, but will become more stable as the mind is mature, and are the goal of two people growing together.